Psychologists have done an interesting
experiment: people in the little needle threading, at this time, the more you
concentrate, your hand was shaking the more severe, the line is not easy to
wear into.
In the medical
profession, the phenomenon is known as the "purpose of trembling" ,the
stronger of your purpose, the less likely to succeed.
In fact, each of
us did a lot of things in life, can not guarantee 100 percent success. This is
a very normal thing. So why do not give yourself a failure psychologically
prepared for it? Why can not the normal state of mind to face failure? You
know, failure is painful, but the failure is not terrible, but also not all
failures are a disaster. Life is full of surprises, and not everyone is able to
come to life is the most brilliant of the vertex. He was hearty smile says
"triumph of democracy pursuit of democracy." He campaign after the
end of World War II, known in the world of Winston Churchill to participate in
the presidential campaign, when the secretary told him "unsuccessful"
failure, but equally brilliant. His failure marks he once had. He can face up
to the failure, indicating that his heart is strong enough.
Failed, the key is
to find the cause of the failure. After the failure of thinking is more
valuable than the joy of success. Perhaps your efforts are not enough, perhaps
the objective conditions do not permit, there may be unexpected factors at
work. Then, just as the exam for their lives cross once tuition as their
failure to examine with wise eyes. If failed due crazy, we must learn to humble
and reserved; If you underestimate the enemy and fail, we must learn to
exercise caution; if it is presumptuous and fails, we must learn to respect the
objective reality; if failed due to lack of capacity , it is necessary to
remind ourselves to redouble their efforts. In short, as long as the failure
without losing Chi failure as the seeds of success, perseverance to hard work,
and one day that seed will grow into towering trees.
Everyone will be
setbacks and failures in life on the road, and the weak in the face of setbacks
and failures, alas, in despair, unable to extricate themselves. Only the strong
will be aiming for, not until the goal. A man who wants to be successful, you
have to accept defeat, to endure the torture of failure to sharpen their own
failure to enrich themselves, improve themselves, to make themselves more
powerful, his heart is more powerful.
If you did all of
this, the back of the failure is success.
The U.S. brands HE
has been concerned about the mouse and keyboard peripherals products. In order
to effectively prevent the mouse hand, HE company has experience many fails on
how to reduce the painful from the mouse hand ills, and finaly design the ergonomicvertical mouse.