From
psychology, one more invested himself in the work, work values and personal
values will be
easily conflict,
it will have the greater impact. For example, the values of the business
work-oriented comparative advantage, that if inconsistent with the values of
the individual, it is possible to cause mood affected, there is no sense of
security, and a sense of accomplishment.
Three
levels of work
Defined
on the Psychology the individual inputs shades three levels, the first level is
to work as a career, that is, the so-called occupation; second level is
Professional; third level of this effort, called vocation. One more put themselves
into their work, the more likely it is to work on behalf of the values, roles,
and deep interaction. From psychology, personal work more invested, work values
and personal values easier
happen conflict,
it will have the greater impact. For example, the values of the business
work-oriented comparative advantage, that if inconsistent with the values of the individual, it is possible
to cause mood affected, there is no sense of security, and a sense of
accomplishment.
For
example, I often go to companies to have a class for their employees, in the courses,
I often will design a interactive unit, so that the employees can understand
what their work values. Through the design of a small story, which has various
representatives of "objective and calm", "respect for
others", the role of the interest-oriented "and" sacrificed
"qualities, I often find successful salesman will often agree that the
story represents interest-oriented role, and staff engaged in financial or
legal work, most of the high degree of identity story represents objective
role. In general, a person more devote himself to their work, the more likely
to agree to work with their own story, the same values of the virtual characters.
Do
not repressed emotions and values
· Each work will have special
expectations given by the community, for example, teachers often expect to have
higher moral levels, more moderate personality, but in fact, anyone can be
through the teacher selection procedures worked as a teacher, as it is not only
a specific personality who can served. With this value and characteristic to evaluate the teacher, in fact, it does not
meet the reality of the situation. Therefore, when a man engaged in work values
and personal values do not match, it will has a serious contradiction in the
cognitive down long-term physical and mental illness are more likely to form.
There are a lot of medical research found that long-term suppression of their
true feelings, negative emotions, or values, may produce depression, bulimia,
cancer, serious physical and mental illnesses.
Maintain
flexibility is healthy
In
psychiatry, we define mental health flexible workplace is actually the case. To
serve as a successful business managers need flexible. The nature of the
enterprise, in fact, is short remote interaction, since the people you want to
deal with countless types of response should be able to change the elasticity.
If a person at work, often will be defined is "business character" of
the people, this is not necessarily a praise or derogatory evaluation, but if
it is the interpersonal relationships between friends evaluation was
"business personality" may failure. Which represents the people, has
lost its elasticity, the conversion can not be made between work and life.
For
example, a few years ago, competent emptied and the closure of multinational
energy company called Enron, the CEO of this company is actually a pretty
legendary figure, his annual salary of U.S. $ tens of millions, but he had to
USD and 70 points change, a fight with a taxi driver in the streets of New York
and the defendant. Of course, when the CEO of a large company must require a
degree of tough, But when his powerful because it is working or living
adjustments, he will lose some of the flexibility.
Three
steps of the conversion
End
should be made between the personal traits and personality convert it? Like
when we begin to say, the degree of personal work, may affect his values and modern they are so long, often
even if work heart still hovering at work, this will not be modern kind of
fate?
The
successful conversion has three steps:
The
first step is a "self-help", say, commuting time to and from work,
you can become a buffer of working with life, take advantage of the transport
time to practice sit, meditation and relaxation techniques, own independent
time go do is not yet complete event planning, scheduling priority of life, the
better the effect will be more planning buffer;
The
second step is to "help him" if the individual's self-awareness is
not so good, they can invite family, partner to help them in their own work
pressure, emotional, personality brought back the time to make reminder:
"you are now looks again like a business manager. " This good sense
of humor, a reminder, you can help yourself to make a switch, and even can
remind you a few files ah ", reminded of their own lives and emotional
need to shift, do not need to have been forging ahead, so that they can There
are moderately rest;
If
the first two are invalid, you may need professional help ", which is the
third step. If it is found to have psychosomatic symptoms, say easier angry
because the little things, or have been interested in things lose interest,
have even acts of self-harm, it would have to accept the professional psychological
counseling assistance.
Make
good use of the work of the character in the lives
The
work character is in fact two sides of the same coin, has he good or bad. An
"engineer character" work in different departments, there will be a
different evaluation.
For
example, a so-called "engineers character" on the human resources
department, may be considered to be very ruthless, unreasoning, but if
negotiations with foreign department on behalf of the company, he can be considered
to be very calm objective, matter.
Level
of life, some matters of rational decision-making, but the character of their
work to assist the family. Such as home to buy a house, buy a car, there is a
relatively large investment, the need for a rational existence. Families
through the person authorized to give such qualities, make better decisions,
these people can also feel the family is participating.
Facing
retirement life should recognize the work of personality is not good or bad,
you just need to use at the appropriate time, to make the flexible adjustment.
To the full enjoyment of the work to bring us a rich harvest.
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