2012年11月30日星期五

No longer do yesbuter


Life always have such people, they like to say: "Yes, but ..."

"You can not always say would like to learn to dance? Heard of your school Dance Association is very good, how not to enroll for the course?" "Yes, I have heard, however,we are adults, and certainly do not good at it ...... " you are not always feel that you have a good written? Submission why not try to newspapers and magazines?", but, who knows how many people are in Contributions and do not say ...... "" often hear you say discontent now room for improvement, would like to continue their studies, then how do not it? "Yes, I think this continues little room for improvement, but, if re-studying the test into how to do it? also there ...... "
This dialogue takes place every day. Feel familiar? There own shadow?

"Tear down the wall thinking" this person called "yesbuter". Really appropriate. The book says: In fact, we have had this feeling that he though nothing caught in a little bit of everything but fear what we can not do themselves suddenly become weak, can not withstand the failure and doubt.

Read yesbuter, I laughed, but ,myself is a yesbuter too? Always hesitated to let go of a lot of possibilities in after thinking it over. We always do an impulse, there is more reason to tie him down. We can never be put into purely to do only one thing. Finally, no matter what choice, our anxiety will not disappear, only doing this thing, but think of another may continue to doubt and regret.

One of my friends said to me: "I work in a small city, a steady wage is very low, this is not the life I want I imagine that other people like to see the outside world, to work in a big city , but I was afraid to find a good job there. "She is very painful, while dissatisfaction with the status quo, complaining; side but do cattle and horses to next.

Life needs so much worry? Really necessary? HE, founder Jonhn Han had thought of establish a company that specialized on ergonomic products, he does not think too many problems, and do when he think of it;and know himself is not a ergonomic experts, he look for various opportunities and find R-GOtools who is ergonomic experts in the Netherlands to corporation design an ergonomic vertical mouse, now this vertical mouse is also liked by the people of the world, especially the mouse hand patients.

If you have to give up their own are not satisfied with the work, continue to recharge graduate study. Passed, then you succeed. If you did not meet the standard, you tried, and harvest knowledge, of course, not just knowledge. You reap experience, harvest experience and gain a lot of sentiment. Why should regret Now try try, they do not regret it. Some of the things they want and not try to fight, and that can only stay forever in the sake of "want to". If Jonhn Han had as concerns many, like the majority of people will not have the HE ergonomic  vertical mouse.

The saddest thing is, though he chose to try a road, but not heart walk frequently look back to that fork in the road, and suspect that their decision. Finally, when really failed, said: "I know ..." You guessed how? Precisely because of the variety of concerns tie him with, you can not concentrate on investment in the current choices, do it.

If you still a yesbuter, and always can not be happy, but also can not be truly successful. Come on, no longer do yesbuter, let’s pursue what we want to pursue and successfully want a successful, enjoy our selection of the happy moment of happiness. Said to ourselves, Let's go, Just do it and enjoy it!

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